Community for Understanding and Hope

Steering Committee


Ron Hodges (Chair)
David Bennett
Bill Bommarito
Margaret Bommarito
David Brown
Colleen Carlton
Jeff Croft
Gretchen Curry
Drew Ehrhardt
Pat Flynn
Vernon Gundermann
Nancy Price
Maggie Roach
Scott Stearman
Paul Ward
Wallace Ward

Consultants
Doug Bram
Linda Collins


Mission


In the quest to transform the Kirkwood Area into a prejudice-free community of highly respectful individuals, CFUH will initiate ongoing dialogue and social interaction to create an environment of understanding and healing.


 

Third Annual CFUH & The Magic House Ice Cream Social

This was a good chance for the community to play and enjoy ice cream together last June 28 at The Magic House.

The Magic House opened their doors for us and free ice cream was provided by Cold Stone Creamery, The Custard Station, and CFUH. Music ws provided by The Scott Laytham and Karl "Trickee" Holmes Duo. We even has free massages provided by Sara Niebruegge Massage Therapy.

To see photos from last year's ice cream social, click here.


The Art of Living Project

Sponsored by Hope Unlimited, Girl Scouts of Eastern Missouri, E3-StL and members of the Kirkwood Community

Young middle and high school age women are encouraged to participate.

Contributions of supplies for projects and food for meetings are needed.

The first of six programs will be at Turner School on June 30

Goals for the program are

  • to educate young women about relationship building in the areas of friendship, family, dataing and self-esteem.
  • to introduce young women to community leaders to serve as an inspiration and as mentors.
  • to bring together community partners to support an environment of understanding and healing.
  • to create enthusiasm, fellowship and ownership for their time spent with the Art of Living Project.

You can contact Mary Drummond at (314)225-6622 or ArtofLivingProject@mail.com to learn more about the project or the launch party.


PEAK (Partnership for Educational Achievement in Kirkwood)

Does your Middle or High School Student have what they need for a successful 2010/2011 school year?

P.E.A.K. is a partnership between members of the Kirkwood Community who want to support the education and success of our youth. Our First Annual Education Fair will be held on Saturday, August 7th and we hope to see you and your student there.

Registration is at noon, with our speaker schedule beginning at 12:30. Please arrive on time so that you can hear the speakers on The College Planning Process, Financial Aid & Funding for Post-Secondary Education, the A+ Program and others. This is a wonderful opportunity for parents and guardians and students, to ask questions and demystify the process of preparing for a post-secondary school career, whether it will include college or other avenues of preparation. Come and join members of the Kirkwood High School Guidance Department, area colleges, health care providers, social service providers, the newly reorganized City of Kirkwood Human Rights Committee, and representatives from many of the enrichment activity programs in our Kirkwood Community.

Flyer

For more information, check their website at http://PEAK63122.org


DOJ Mediation Agreement

In the wake of the tragic events of February 7th, 2008, a team-oriented mediation process was begun to address concerns expressed by Meacham Park residents. The mediation and resulting agreement was moderated by William Whitcomb of the U.S. Department of Justice, Community Relations Service. Members of the City and Community teams established a partnership with affected residents of Meacham Park and engaged in a series of focus groups to identify the current cultural composition and what issues need to be addressed.

The agreement covers three specific areas. It calls for:

  • the City Council to “Empower the Human Rights Advisory and Awareness Commission with the tools necessary to establish itself as a more active and responsive servant and leader in the community, and to increase transparency, efficiency and public confidence in the citizen compliant/request process”,
  • creating, expanding and/or focusing on specific Kirkwood Police programs, and
  • addressing issues with the home improvement program in the Meacham Park neighborhood that was funded by Tax Increment Financing (TIF).

The agreement and supporting documentation are available on the City of Kirkwood website. The documents there are the press release, the agreement document, and supporting documentation.

A recent series of stories in the St. Louis Beacon reviews relevant history and events in Kirkwood that led to the development of this agreement http://www.stlbeacon.org/content/view/100029/34005/.


Book Club

Co-sponsored by CFUH and the Kirkwood Public Library. Our goal is to build friendships, increase our awareness and enjoy each other.

The next meeting of the CFUH Book Club will be on Thursday evening, June 24, 2010 at 7 PM. Meeting place is at Kaldis big conference table, Kirkwood Plaza.

The book for June is Best African-American Fiction 2009 edited by E. Lynn Harris and Gerald Early. Leader for this session is Carmen Reed.

Click here for a list of the books we have scheduled to read during the coming year.


Old Fashioned Picnic in the Park


We had a great time last August 25 at Kirkwood Park
We live music from a 70 piece band called After Hours Community Band. We had cookies, watermelon and whatever we brought to eat.
(Click on photos for a larger version.)

CFUH Community Ice Cream Social at the Magic House

A great time was had by all on June 23, 2009.

Thanks to the The Magic House – St. Louis Children’s Museum
The Scott Laytham and Karl “Trickee” Holmes Duo
Cold Stone Creamery and The Custard Station

Click here to see photos from this event.


Our Future

On Saturday March 7, 2009 the CFUH Steering Committee held a retreat to discuss the future direction of our group The strongest commitment that came out of the retreat is the Steering Committee’s wishes to continue its work PROMOTING A RESPECTFUL PREJUDICE-FREE community. Another decision was to change of our name to Community for Understanding and Hope. We continue to believe that broadening the level of understanding in our community is of paramount importance. Now we want to focus our organization on building a greater future for all of our citizens. For the time being, we will retain the mission statement we have although we may want to make some modification to that as we adjust our direction in this, our second year.

The Steering Committee has decided on three areas of focus and is establishing committees to work on each of these areas.

Cross Racial Interaction will seek to provide:

  • Social interaction among races,
  • A safe place for people to tell their stories,
  • Involvement of our city's youth in exploring racial interaction,
  • Increased awareness of how we view and treat others,
  • Development of smaller, less formal racially-mixed groups such as Bridges, and
  • Events such as speaker series or forums.
Meacham Park Neighborhood Concerns will seek to provide:
  • A united voice for Meacham Park residents,
  • Increased efforts to help Meacham Park residents feel more included, and
  • Clearer, more concise, and prioritized understanding of the needs of Meacham Park.
Education will seek to provide:
  • Reduced achievement gap between races in the R-7 Schools,
  • More black teachers and administrators in the R-7 schools,
  • Discussions with R-7 Board and Administrators regarding race relations and issues,
  • Working relationship with the new Superintendent of Schools in Kirkwood,
  • More blacks involved in school committees, and
  • Events such as speaker series or forums.
Other possible areas of focus were considered. Some of these are being considered by other groups.

Our intent with this summary is to honor our commitment to you to keep you up to date with our activities and our future direction. All of you remain very much a part of CFUH. We thoroughly appreciate your input and your concern for our future. We cannot do this work without your participation and your well wishes for this group’s success. We honestly believe that if CFUH can succeed, ALL of Kirkwood succeeds on so many levels. Thank you for your continued interest and we will make every effort to keep you up to date on our progress. If you are interested in participating on one of our committees, please send an email to



February 7, 2009 Session

The program, held at Kirkwood Baptist Church, was based on a presentation of the winning essays from the CFUH Essay Contest. The winners read their essays to the group where the ideas from the essays were discussed. A specially commissioned piece of music, "Canticle of Peace" was sung in it's debut performance.


Winners with Dr. Linda Collins (Lead Judge)
and Ron Hodges (CFUH Chair)
Some winners had jobs or ACT tests that day.

Click for more photos, list of winners and copies of winning essays.


Community Gospel Choir

The Community Gospel Choir is a group of people from many different churches and many different parts of the St. Louis area. Through their spirited interpretation of the rich tradition of African-American gospel music, the choir is working to break down racial, cultural and economic barriers in our community. For more information, check out the website at www.communitygospelchoir.org.


Bridges Across Racial Polarization

Many of you have told us you would like some action or social opportunities as our dialogue continues. Offered through a regionally-based nonprofit called FOCUS St. Louis, the Bridges Across Racial Polarization® program will give Kirkwood residents an opportunity to create small dialogue groups which would meet regularly, generally while sharing a meal at a restaurant or in each other's homes. The aim would be similar to that of the CFUH dialogue sessions - to discuss relevant racial/social issues and gradually build trust and friendship across racial lines.

The Bridges program has been recognized nationally as a Solution for America by the Pew Partnership for Civic Change. The CFUH hopes Bridges might provide a meaningful ongoing experience for some Kirkwood residents looking to broaden the diversity of their social circle and create a stronger, more peaceful community for all of us. Bridges groups are supported by a FOCUS staff person and a Bridges Steering Committee. Bridges members are provided with other organizational support, some large-group networking opportunities, and electronic reference materials. Read more about the Bridges Across Racial Polarization® program in this brochure and think about signing up to be part of what we hope will be several Kirkwood-based groups. Or, today and let us know of your interest.


Agreements for Great Conversations
  • Listen ... with respect and curiosity
  • Suspend judgement as best you can
  • Be open to the ideas of others
  • Speak what has personal heart and meaning
  • Invite and honor diversity of opinion
  • Go for honesty and depth ... without going on and on
History
This effort was initiated by the Meacham Park Neighborhood Improvement Association in order to foster understanding and healing throughout our community following the tragedy of Thursday, 7 February 2008. It is led and peopled by community volunteers who think that any problem in America can be solved if caring Americans respect the dignity of all other human beings in our society and work together in a journey for peace, healing, and reconciliation.

Our first task is to meet and talk with each other across every boundary: race, color, creed, religion, age, gender, economic status, physical challenge, etc. We start with dialogue meetings in which people share personal and cultural experiences -- with two rules: (1) be honest, (2) be courteous.

Four Dialogue Sessions were held earlier in 2008 (February, March, April, and May). An Executive Summary has been prepared outlining the results of those first four dialogues.

We want to thank STLCC-Meramec and Kirkwood Baptist, Kirkwood United Methodist, Grace Episcopal, and St. Peter Catholic churches for their generous support, providing their facilities at no charge in order to help the community in this effort.

In future meetings, as we begin to know and trust each other, we will continue to dialogue in our quest for understanding, and we will explore actions we can take to put us on the path to our preferred future.

Get Involved ...

Opportunities to Serve


Shepherd's Center is an organization in the Kirkwood and Webster community whose goal is to enable older adults to remain vital and independent through programs and services that promote positive aging.

CFUH in the News


KSDK, July 8, 2010
Webster-Kirkwood Times, March 20, 2009
Suburban Journals, Feb. 18, 2009
KWMU, St. Louis on the Air, Feb. 10, 2009
United Methodist Church, Feb. 9, 2009
St. Louis Beacon, Feb. 8, 2009
St. Louis Beacon, Feb. 6, 2009

Beck Foundation Resource Center

Volunteer or make a donation to help provide educational and economic resources to students and families in the Kirkwood Community.

City of Kirkwood

Meeting Calendar and Meeting Minutes
MP3 recordings of meetings for the City Council, Architectural Review Board, Board Of Adjustment, and Planning & Zoning can be accessed on the same page as the Minutes for those groups.

Review the list of Kirkwood Boards and Commissions here.
Download a Volunteer Profile Form or stop by City Hall and get one from the Clerk.

Contact Us

For more information, or to volunteer:


Resource Materials

Chris Jeske, Kirkwood HS grad and Marquette U business student is studying race relations in Kirkwood. Check out his webiste at http://arentweallequal.com/

White Privilege 101 Video used at September 6 dialogue session.

Executive Summary of Dialogue Sessions February thru May 2008

Historic Overview of the Meacham Park Neighborhood and the City of Kirkwood

Reflective Communication by Rev. David Bennett

The Kirkwood Shootings by Jeannete Cooperman, St. Louis Magazine (May 2008)

Meacham Park: Past, Present, and Future by Don Corrigan, Webster-Kirkwood Times (March 2008)

Meacham Park: A History of American Change by Don Corrigan, Webster-Kirkwood Times (March 2008, reprinted from 1986)

Kirkwood kids find it's hard to talk about tragedy By Ryan Miller (May 2008)

Second "Healing" Forum Draws About 250 Residents by Janet Edwards, Webster-Kirkwood Times (March 2008)

A Broken Community, and Hope for Healing by Scott Stearman (Feb, 14, 2008)

Where racial healing happens by Rob Cochoran, Christian Science Monitor (May 2008)

KSDK Interview of Ron Hodges (Sept. 2008)

Empowerment Resources: Things an individual can do without needing to organize a group CFUH Handout (Oct. 2008)

What is Healing for Kirkwood? by Jim Baker

Former mayor Swoboda's death casts pall on Kirkwood healing meeting by Bill Freivogel (Sept. 2008)