Community for Understanding and Hope

Steering Committee


Chair:
Ron Hodges
Vice Chair:
Lynn Broeder

David Bennett
Bill Bommarito
Margaret Bommarito
David Brown
Jeff Croft
Gretchen Curry
Drew Ehrhardt
Pat Flynn
Vernon Gundermann
Gene Ostendorf
Nancy Price
Scott Stearman
Wallace Ward

Consultants
Doug Bram
Linda Collins


Mission


In the quest to transform the Kirkwood Area into a prejudice-free community of highly respectful individuals, CFUH will initiate ongoing dialogue and social interaction to create an environment of understanding and healing.


 

CFUH Community Ice Cream Social at the Magic House

A great time was had by all on June 23, 2009.

Thanks to the The Magic House – St. Louis Children’s Museum
The Scott Laytham and Karl “Trickee” Holmes Duo
Cold Stone Creamery and The Custard Station

This year we had 505 people, an increase of about 8% over last year in spite of the repressive heat. We also had a number of our elected officials in attendance. We appreciate their support for our programs.

Missouri State Senator:Eric Schmitt
Missouri State Rep:Rick Stream
Kirkwood Mayor:Art McDonnell
Council Member:Iggy Yuan
Council Member:Gerry Biedenstein
School Board Member:Kathy Harris

Click here to see photos from this event.


Our Future

On Saturday March 7, 2009 the CFUH Steering Committee held a retreat to discuss the future direction of our group The strongest commitment that came out of the retreat is the Steering Committee’s wishes to continue its work PROMOTING A RESPECTFUL PREJUDICE-FREE community. Another decision was to change of our name to Community for Understanding and Hope. We continue to believe that broadening the level of understanding in our community is of paramount importance. Now we want to focus our organization on building a greater future for all of our citizens. For the time being, we will retain the mission statement we have although we may want to make some modification to that as we adjust our direction in this, our second year.

The Steering Committee has decided on three areas of focus and is establishing committees to work on each of these areas.

Cross Racial Interaction will seek to provide:

  • Social interaction among races,
  • A safe place for people to tell their stories,
  • Involvement of our city's youth in exploring racial interaction,
  • Increased awareness of how we view and treat others,
  • Development of smaller, less formal racially-mixed groups such as Bridges, and
  • Events such as speaker series or forums.
Meacham Park Neighborhood Concerns will seek to provide:
  • A united voice for Meacham Park residents,
  • Increased efforts to help Meacham Park residents feel more included, and
  • Clearer, more concise, and prioritized understanding of the needs of Meacham Park.
Education will seek to provide:
  • Reduced achievement gap between races in the R-7 Schools,
  • More black teachers and administrators in the R-7 schools,
  • Discussions with R-7 Board and Administrators regarding race relations and issues,
  • Working relationship with the new Superintendent of Schools in Kirkwood,
  • More blacks involved in school committees, and
  • Events such as speaker series or forums.
Other possible areas of focus were considered. Some of these are being considered by other groups.

Our intent with this summary is to honor our commitment to you to keep you up to date with our activities and our future direction. All of you remain very much a part of CFUH. We thoroughly appreciate your input and your concern for our future. We cannot do this work without your participation and your well wishes for this group’s success. We honestly believe that if CFUH can succeed, ALL of Kirkwood succeeds on so many levels. Thank you for your continued interest and we will make every effort to keep you up to date on our progress. If you are interested in participating on one of our committees, please send an email to



Book Club

Co-sponsored by CFUH and the Kirkwood Public Library.
The next meeting of the CFUH Book Club will be on Thursday evening, July 28, 2009 at 7 PM. Our book to be discussed that night will be The Color of Water by James McBride. The meeting will be at Kaldi's in Kirkwood on the Plaza. Outside if the weather is mild, inside if not. Please consider buying coffee or tea, etc. during our conversation. Click here for a list of all book club selections. Books are available at the Library.

Our book selection meeting for next year's books will be a potluck Thurs, Sept 24, place to be announced. Each of us will bring 2 or 3 titles to recommend. Variety is welcomed: political and historical treatments, award winning fiction and essays, light fiction and murder mysteries, memoir, local history or magazine article as they relate to themes of race and race relations. Be thinking of a good read and a special dish to share. Our goal is to build friendships, increase our awareness and enjoy each other.



February 7, 2009 Session

The program, held at Kirkwood Baptist Church, was based on a presentation of the winning essays from the CFUH Essay Contest. The winners read their essays to the group where the ideas from the essays were discussed. A specially commissioned piece of music, "Canticle of Peace" was sung in it's debut performance.


Winners with Dr. Linda Collins (Lead Judge)
and Ron Hodges (CFUH Chair)
Some winners had jobs or ACT tests that day.

Click for more photos, list of winners and copies of winning essays.


Bridges

Many thanks to all who have expressed interest in Bridges groups. At least four groups have been organized. More will be formed when a few more Blacks volunteer to be co-leaders in their groups. Read more about the Bridges program below.

Community Gospel Choir

The Community Gospel Choir is a group of people from many different churches and many different parts of the St. Louis area. Through their spirited interpretation of the rich tradition of African-American gospel music, the choir is working to break down racial, cultural and economic barriers in our community. For more information, check out the website at www.communitygospelchoir.org.


SPROG
SPROG is a summer program that hopes to close the student achievement gap in some small way for 7 weeks. Tuition is $145. You can sponsor a child or come and volunteer. Contact for more information or to help. Check out the SPROG website at http://www.sproginc.org/


KSD offers Summer Adventure Program for Students K-5
This is a new summer learning option for students in grades kindergarten through fifth grade. The program features learning activities in two areas: Summer Enrichment and Sports Blitz. The Summer Enrichment Adventure provides academic enrichment. The Sports Blitz Adventure offers team/individual sports, teamwork, and fitness learning experiences.
The Kirkwood Summer Adventure program will be held at Tillman Elementary School. Check the Kirkwood School District website, http://www.kirkwoodschools.org/news/2009/article/733/, for more details.


Bridges Across Racial Polarization

Many of you have told us you would like some action or social opportunities as our dialogue continues. Offered through a regionally-based nonprofit called FOCUS St. Louis, the Bridges Across Racial Polarization® program will give Kirkwood residents an opportunity to create small dialogue groups which would meet regularly, generally while sharing a meal at a restaurant or in each other's homes. The aim would be similar to that of the CFUH dialogue sessions - to discuss relevant racial/social issues and gradually build trust and friendship across racial lines.

The Bridges program has been recognized nationally as a Solution for America by the Pew Partnership for Civic Change. The CFUH hopes Bridges might provide a meaningful ongoing experience for some Kirkwood residents looking to broaden the diversity of their social circle and create a stronger, more peaceful community for all of us. Bridges groups are supported by a FOCUS staff person and a Bridges Steering Committee. Bridges members are provided with other organizational support, some large-group networking opportunities, and electronic reference materials. Read more about the Bridges Across Racial Polarization® program in this brochure and think about signing up to be part of what we hope will be several Kirkwood-based groups. Or, today and let us know of your interest.


Agreements for Great Conversations
  • Listen ... with respect and curiosity
  • Suspend judgement as best you can
  • Be open to the ideas of others
  • Speak what has personal heart and meaning
  • Invite and honor diversity of opinion
  • Go for honesty and depth ... without going on and on
History
This effort was initiated by the Meacham Park Neighborhood Improvement Association in order to foster understanding and healing throughout our community following the tragedy of Thursday, 7 February 2008. It is led and peopled by community volunteers who think that any problem in America can be solved if caring Americans respect the dignity of all other human beings in our society and work together in a journey for peace, healing, and reconciliation.

Our first task is to meet and talk with each other across every boundary: race, color, creed, religion, age, gender, economic status, physical challenge, etc. We start with dialogue meetings in which people share personal and cultural experiences -- with two rules: (1) be honest, (2) be courteous.

Four Dialogue Sessions were held earlier in 2008 (February, March, April, and May). An Executive Summary has been prepared outlining the results of those first four dialogues.

We want to thank STLCC-Meramec and Kirkwood Baptist, Kirkwood United Methodist, Grace Episcopal, and St. Peter Catholic churches for their generous support, providing their facilities at no charge in order to help the community in this effort.

In future meetings, as we begin to know and trust each other, we will continue to dialogue in our quest for understanding, and we will explore actions we can take to put us on the path to our preferred future.

Get Involved ...

CFUH in the News


Webster-Kirkwood Times, March 20
Suburban Journals, Feb. 18
KWMU, St. Louis on the Air, Feb. 10
United Methodist Church, Feb. 9
St. Louis Beacon, Feb. 8
St. Louis Beacon, Feb. 6

Beck Foundation Resource Center

Volunteer or make a donation to help provide educational and economic resources to students and families in the Kirkwood Community.

City of Kirkwood

Meeting Calendar and Meeting Minutes
MP3 recordings of meetings for the City Council, Architectural Review Board, Board Of Adjustment, and Planning & Zoning can be accessed on the same page as the Minutes for those groups.

Review the list of Kirkwood Boards and Commissions here.
Download a Volunteer Profile Form or stop by City Hall and get one from the Clerk.

Contact Us

For more information, or to volunteer:


Resource Materials

The Meacham Park Community now has its own website. You can find it at http://www.jcbgroup.org/.

Chris Jeske, Kirkwood HS grad and Marquette U business student is studying race relations in Kirkwood. Check out his webiste at http://arentweallequal.com/

White Privilege 101 Video used at September 6 dialogue session.

Executive Summary of Dialogue Sessions February thru May 2008

Historic Overview of the Meacham Park Neighborhood and the City of Kirkwood

Reflective Communication by Rev. David Bennett

The Kirkwood Shootings by Jeannete Cooperman, St. Louis Magazine (May 2008)

Meacham Park: Past, Present, and Future by Don Corrigan, Webster-Kirkwood Times (March 2008)

Meacham Park: A History of American Change by Don Corrigan, Webster-Kirkwood Times (March 2008, reprinted from 1986)

Kirkwood kids find it's hard to talk about tragedy By Ryan Miller (May 2008)

Second "Healing" Forum Draws About 250 Residents by Janet Edwards, Webster-Kirkwood Times (March 2008)

A Broken Community, and Hope for Healing by Scott Stearman (Feb, 14, 2008)

Where racial healing happens by Rob Cochoran, Christian Science Monitor (May 2008)

KSDK Interview of Ron Hodges (Sept. 2008)

Empowerment Resources: Things an individual can do without needing to organize a group CFUH Handout (Oct. 2008)

What is Healing for Kirkwood? by Jim Baker

Former mayor Swoboda's death casts pall on Kirkwood healing meeting by Bill Freivogel (Sept. 2008)